Positive Thoughts Needed

Just-Jenn
on 5/31/11 5:21 am - Midstate Region, PA
So a while back I had mentioned the problems that I was / am having with my teenage daughter (I had posted an update but decided on the side of caution it wasn't fair to air all of her 'laundry' so I removed it ).  Since she has returned home from her stay at inpatient, nothing has changed except now she feels entitled to tell us, I need time alone or I'm frustrated.  Which are used as excuses not coping skills.  I am super frustrated and at the end of my rope- my DH and I had to actually talk about living apart, because he just can't cope with her anymore.  I have an evaluation for her tomorrow---please send positive thoughts that THIS person will get what I am saying and help us to get the break and care we need so badly.  I keep telling myself I can do this, I can do this---but I don't know how much more I really can---and if they don't agree with my recommendations / what I believe she needs / what I want;  I don't know what I will do.  Thanks for letting me tell someone---I am scared to death of another dead end!


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italianspice
on 5/31/11 5:56 am - Eastlake, OH
Sending positive thoughts your way!
I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you and your family will get the help that you need.

Maria
Mara C.
on 5/31/11 6:06 am - Millbury, MA
sending postive thoughts too... I remember your story.  This has got to be so hard... I pray you get the help you need and your whole family can move forward together and be happy.
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Price S.
on 5/31/11 9:17 am - Mills River, NC
I'm swinging for you.  I hope something can happen to make things better.

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PamtasticNewLife
on 5/31/11 11:46 am
My heart goes out to you and your family. Teenage kids are tough sometimes. You gotta love em or sometimes you would just like to pinch their heads off. Lol
Honestly am glad all of mine are grown now. I would hate to be raising teenagers in this day and age.

Just take it one day at a time! Don't let whatever this is break your family apart.

Pam

Will be keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

When my oldest was in his teens its a wonder someone didn't have me committed. I look back at it now and wonder why they didn't? But I survived and so will you.
Take care! Lay your troubles at Jesus 's feet he will see you through this!

kelly_hope
on 5/31/11 3:05 pm - Marysville, WA
My thoughts are with you. I've seen many families go through this and a lot of them pull through. I hope you all find peace.
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sqerlygirl
on 5/31/11 9:24 pm
Sending prayers your way Jenn...so sorry you are going through this.

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(deactivated member)
on 5/31/11 11:21 pm
 aww  Jen   Dont  forget to take care of  YOU  !!!  and also  DH  !!  

sometimes I think kidz are tougher than we think...  they need GUIDANCE more than  babying  and catering to ...  and tiptoeing around ... 
Just-Jenn
on 6/1/11 2:20 am - Midstate Region, PA
Thanks everyone---I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed that things work out---the person that did the eval said insurance is often the barrirer---I may send her to live with them then if they dont approve what she needs. 


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MajorMom
on 6/1/11 2:23 am - VA

**Like**  it would serve them right too.

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